Episode 138: REPLAY – I’ll Be Happy When

Choose to be happy in the here and now.

This week we’re bringing back one of your favorite episodes, one that we released earlier this year. We hope you enjoy it!

In this week’s replay episode, Chief Victory Officer, Eric Guy, and Darci Williams, Certified Executive Level Life and Leadership Coach, discuss the challenge of thinking “I’ll be happy when…” and how to pursue your goals with a healthy mindset.

Do you ever catch yourself daydreaming about the future, convinced that happiness awaits you just around the corner? Perhaps you believe that you’ll finally be content when you achieve your long-cherished goals or when you’re living a certain lifestyle. If so, you’re not alone. Many of us fall prey to a sneaky mindset called “destination addiction,” a mentality that convinces us that our happiness lies somewhere in the distant future, just out of reach. In this week’s episode, we explore the perils of destination addiction and why it’s crucial to find happiness in the present moment.

Destination Addiction: Missing the Present While Chasing the Future

We’ve all been guilty of this at some point in our lives. We set ambitious goals and become so fixated on reaching them that we lose sight of the beauty and opportunities that surround us in the present. It’s like being on a never-ending treadmill, always chasing after the elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The danger of this mindset is that it robs us of the joy we could be experiencing right now.

Embracing the Journey

Life is a journey, not a destination. Our goals are important, and they give us purpose, but they should not be the sole source of our happiness. We must learn to embrace all the ups and downs along the way. The journey is where we learn, grow, and evolve into better versions of ourselves. It’s in those moments of challenge and uncertainty that we discover our resilience and strength.

Happiness Is a Choice

Happiness is not a future state that we stumble upon; it’s a choice we make every day. We have the power to decide how we want to experience life, regardless of our circumstances. Instead of postponing happiness until we’ve achieved our goals, we can choose to find joy in the small moments, in the people we love, and in the everyday experiences that make life beautiful.

Taking Control of Our Reactions

We can’t control everything that happens in life. There will always be unexpected challenges and setbacks. However, we have absolute control over how we react to these situations. When we shift our focus from what we can’t control to how we respond, we regain a sense of agency over our lives. We become architects of our own happiness, crafting it from the materials of our thoughts and actions.

The Power of “Yet”

Every time we find ourselves saying, “I don’t know how to do this,” we should add the word “yet.” This simple addition changes our perspective from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset. “I don’t know how to do this yet” implies that we are capable of learning and evolving. It reminds us that we are a work in progress, constantly developing our skills and knowledge.

Learning Today, Evolving Tomorrow

Life is a continuous process of learning and growth. Instead of fixating on the end result, we should relish the opportunity to learn something new each day. Each lesson, whether big or small, brings us one step closer to becoming the person we aspire to be. It’s the journey of self-improvement that truly enriches our lives.

Living in the Present Moment

The present moment is a gift that we often take for granted. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, always looking ahead to what’s next. But in doing so, we overlook the beauty and wonder that surrounds us right now. Whether it’s the warmth of the sun on our skin, the laughter of loved ones, or the satisfaction of a job well done, there are countless reasons to find joy in the present.

Conclusion: Finding Happiness Here and Now

In our pursuit of success and achievement, let’s not forget that happiness is not a destination but a choice we make each day. Destination addiction, the belief that our happiness is contingent on future achievements, can rob us of the joy of the present. We should learn to embrace the journey, take control of our reactions, and remind ourselves of the power of “yet.”

As we strive to reach our goals, let’s not lose sight of the fact that life is happening right now. We have the ability to find happiness in the present moment, and in doing so, we can create a more fulfilling and meaningful life. So, let’s make the conscious choice to be happy today, because, in the end, it’s the journey that truly matters.

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